if you were me, which guy would you choose?
i just want someone elses opinion…
if you were me, would you pick Guy A, who is: the sweetest guy you could ever meet, always tries to calm you down when your frustrated or mad, tells you the sweetest things, sends you texts when your sleeping telling you he loves you about 5times, and whenever your doing something he sends you cute/sweet pick up lines and makes up his own rhymes to tell you how beautiful you are, and has never cheated or treated a girl badly, would call you everytime you say your crying and tries to cheer you up/calm you down, takes you for who you are [and you know he does] and says your the most beautiful girl hes ever seen +++++he doesnt smoke, doesnt drink and doesnt do drugs at all. and would literally do anything for you, AND is also a big romantic person, and hasnt been through what youve been through [asult, abuse..etc.] but tries his damn hardest to understand even though hell never know
OR
Guy B: the biggest, cocky, and conceited jerk you could almost ever meet but behind all that is such a fukcin[iknowispelledthatwrong] softy and sweetheart BUT he doesnt like saying romantic or sweet things aloud & you have to make him say the sweet things[because he says he wants to say it but cant], whos been through the same sh!t and fuqked up life youve been through, smokes, drinks and smokes mj and jokes about almost everything but says he cares about you alot and theres no other girl ….
-they both say that they wouldnt change me for the world………
whats your opinion? who would u go for?
NOTE: and what if GuyA has been your bf for almost 9months but u screwed up and dumped him and are trying your hardest to get him back but youve screwed his mind up so bad that you have to fuqkin fight for his asz so hard that it makes you cry
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youve only known GuyB for about amonth
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Brooke, Guy A sounds like a knight in shining armor! Guy B may be OK, but there’s no contest who I would choose. I would want the guy who was there for me, reassured me that he loves me, and paid a lot of attention to me. You say gave him a bad time? Everybody makes mistakes.
Why don’t you ask Guy A if you could have a talk with him. Get together somewhere in a park or someplace where you won’t be disturbed, someplace nice and private. Tell him you’re sorry you did what you did (whatever it was), and tell him you’ve missed him. Remind him of all the nice things he did for you, and tell him how much he meant to you for being that way. Tell him all the things you’ve told us. Then, ask him whether it’s possible for him to forgive you. If he’s truly as nice as you say he is, I imagine he will. Whether or not he will want to see you again is up to him, but at least he’ll know how you feel. He might think about it for a while and then get back in touch with you. If you’re lucky enough to get him back, be careful how you treat him!
Good luck! I wish I knew how this turned out!
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
I would chose the one my heart says.
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Guy A. Are you kidding?
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
well me being me i fall for cocky assholes… so i would go for guy b.. he sounds like my kind of guy.. if you dont want him can i have him lol
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
I have been here. Same situation, practically the same personalities with the guys. I chose B. I don’t know why I think i was going through the "liking the bad boy stage" If he can’t say the sweet things aloud it probably means he doesn’t mean it. It didn’t work out with me and guy B. I have been through this before so if i were you I’d chose guy A. My guy A is still in my life even after I chose guy B over him so what does that tell you?
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Leave the poor guy A alone for godsake. Sounds like he needs a restrainning order against you. Go for B and be easy will ya? sheesh
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
i’d definitely go for GUY B!!!
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Go for guy A… My mom went for guy b and was in a relationship for 14 years (my dad) and it was the worst relationship possible. Dead beat, gamble addict, drug addict, abuse, money issues… but recently guy a has come back along after my mom dumped him for guy b again bout 5 years ago. Guy A has been me, my moms, bros and sis’s knight in shining armour.. He picked us up off our feet after a terrible time with Guy B and other issues and he saved us all from a deep depression… So do the very smart thing and go for guy A… he is obviously the right choice and he will be somuch better for u in the future and besides what kind of crazy girl wouldn’t wanna a sweet heart like that… Guy A all the way… hope i helped
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June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Guy A…. it might take some work but in the end, he’ll be worth every bit of it.
With Guy B, you’ll fight just as hard to win his affection but he wont appreciate your efforts and he’ll end up getting bored and leave for someone new and different without much thought about your feelings cuz he’s probably pretty self centered. Guys like Mr. B will waste your time and break your heart.
Guy A might not be as cool and dangerous and hot but he loves you and true love and a good man are sooo hard to find!!
Dont let lust lure you away from love.
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Choose B if your aim is sensual pleasure. In case u want somewhat happy life choose A. If u want to ensure a really happy and peaceful life, reject both.
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
GUY A GUY A !!! guy b may seem more attractive…but it will work out wid guy A
June 14th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
take some a moment alone.. especially at night.
ask your self. Trust your conscience.. because Life is..